if you would ask me, What are the Life Advice That Helps You Grow? then first I need to make you understand with an example
Imagine you are being chased by dogs, what would you do? Imagine someone broke into your house, how would you tackle that ? or What will be the case if you have had jealous colleagues in the office?
Your life is surrounded by things that are always trying to put you down, your talents and strengths are being washed away from these breadcrumbs if you don’t know how to handle them properly.
To be honest, I have also made mistakes in my life that had cost me, I didn’t know these following incredible laws that I am about to share with you today.
If you ever been curious, that why some people get extra attention from the rest or why some people are treated like kings?
Then you are in the right place, I will cover all of your answers
Now if you ever ask yourself any of these 3 questions mentioned below then read ahead—
- What do I need to improve in myself?
- What are the ways to know yourself?
- How can I develop myself every day?
- How can I improve my personal development?
- How can I improve myself mentally?
Table of Contents
Let’s begin with the Top 10 Life Advice
1. Trust your enemies more than your friend
ah! This might amaze many of you. Trusting an enemy more than a friend? What?
Yes, you heard it right and there is an explanation behind it. A friend is someone who shares the same path in which you are walking.
While most of you might ask a friend for a suggestion or review for your art, project, or any kind of work, they will always fail to give an accurate review. A friend can never give honest opinions, a friend will appreciate you for your work although they might not mean it.
Put trust in your enemies ( only while taking opinions or suggestions from them ). Although they might sound harsh, their opinions are the most accurate feedback you can ever have. They will challenge you for good and give good competition allowing you to grow and evolve continuously in life. Keep Friends for friendship but compete with the able ones.
2. Be Mysterious
An extraordinary man who appears to be more colourful, mysterious, and bold is always cherished by others
Don’t reveal too much than necessary, let people be curious about you, even if you know about something try to conceal it. your goals and ideals in life should be known by too many, keep it low and let your actions speak for you. people like secrets, be mysterious and grab their attention. Let your action speak for yourself not your mouth.
3. Talk less than necessary
The more you talk the ordinary you appear, the less and precisely your talk the more your enemies will be intimidated. Speak what is necessary, the more you talk the more there is a chance that you will make a mistake and look foolish. Wise people listen and use people to reveal words and information.
So, this happened to me a few months ago. It was a bright sunny day and I was hanging out with my friends. There were 4 of us. One of them named — Debadeep started talking about his future plans.
Well, everyone was curious to know, what he wants to do with his life. So, he started with a bit serious tone and then talked continuously without giving any of us the chance to speak or question. That is embarrassing when you are around your clients or business meeting.
“I realized” — That no one is interested in listening to your story, instead everyone wants their story to be taken into the cover.
Therefore, Rememberdon’t tend to talk much than necessary, answer only when people show enough curiosity.
4. Never choose a side
there is been a heated debate among your friends on which political party is the best.just imagine, Now you have been asked by your friends to choose a political that you thinker is the most suitable for your country.
What will be your answer? The most common answer will be to choose any one of the sides. Right?
You know, what I will do if I were in your position?
I would have chosen none of them.
don’t be committed to anyone, let’s not be the judge of good or bad. Stay as neutral as possible Being neutral makes you in a position to be approached by others for a suggestion. Making you authoritative
5. Be less available To Increase Respect
how did you react when you see a Rolls Royce car? amazing right?
Now tell me “How would you feel, when you see a Toyota”?
Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong to have a Toyota, in fact, I love them. But the idea that I am making you understand is that.
things which are mostly available are respected less as compared to something which is Rare.
the same goes for a human being, If you value your time and increase your absence among your social group, they will start questing. Be less available and people will admire you.
6. Appear to be weak sometime
don’t always pretend that you know everything.
have you ever met a friend who always talks about “How good he/she is at something”
Keep on praising themselves without being curious about others. Although this type of attitude seems to be harmless but is more demeaning in the long-term. People will not be ready to help you, as they will think you already know the answers.
Disarm your enemies by looking weak whenever necessary, build an air of fake satisfaction and work behind for eminence. sometimes pretend to be weak and accept your mistakes.
7. Never offend the wrong person
The one who wears a coat of fake boldness and honesty gets demolished the first. I have seen people committing mistakes but never admit it , though they might get away with it for now but in the long term it become a habit. If you made a mistake , saying sorry is the wisest move.
In other words, if someone is stronger than you in any situation, it is better not to challenge them, as he/she has expertise in their domain. They can beat you with ease.
8. Give everything you have While Chasing your Goal
When you planning to start something whether it is a business or getting a client even just talking to a girl just go all in it. if fear is holding you then remember Fear is just a feeling — which is based on your own imagination of the future, un-expectations are a part of life and you cannot predict the outcome of a process without taking the first step. You never know whether you will get the reward or failure, so take the risk.
Any of your desire must be supported by an action and a willingness to work diligently without any hesitation. One who controls his actions through fear is digging his own grave.
9. Behave like others but Think as You like
“If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness.”
when you are in a social group, it is better to act like them — Behave you are one of them and you will be accepted, but never reveal your true identity.
conceal your intentions and behave like others.
10. Never take the free favor
“What is offered for free is dangerous — it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is worth paying for. By paying your own way you stay clear of gratitude, guilt, and deceit. It is also often wise to pay the full price — there are no cutting corners with excellence. Be lavish with your money and keep it circulating, for generosity is a sign and a magnet for power.”
Often paying full price for something increases the intrinsic value you get from it.
Generally, when people pay more for something, they value it more. But not only that — if you are providing a service, but they also take this service a lot more seriously and value it more. And, your highest paying customers are often your most loyal. They often complain the least, they request the least, they have the least headache.
Whereas your lowest paying customers, the ones who are trying to get the bottom of the barrel and always a bargain, are often complaining the most, they demand the most, and they question the most.
They end up, in turn, taking up your most valuable asset, time, and energy.
Never accept anything for free until you have done something for them.
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